What would you say to your younger self if you had the opportunity to speak to her? This is a picture of me at 22 years of age. If I could speak to her in a way that she would listen (ah…there is the key) what would I tell her?
I would reassure this young woman that her children will turn into strong, health and loving adults. I would tell her to spend more time with her parents, because too soon they will be gone.
“Listen“, I would say, “there is a voice that is trying to get through to you. Stop trying to be so strong, and just listen.”
I would tell her that the right road is not necessarily the easy road, and that it is not too late to take that road. I would tell this young woman, that there is heartache in the years to come, and that she will feel that she will not survive the trauma, but I would reassure her that she will not only survive, but she will find strength within herself that she cannot imagine she possesses.
“Listen“, I would say again, “you cannot change the past, but you can most definitely influence the future.”
I would tell her that she will come to appreciate the lessons that sorrow teaches her, and I would reassure her that she will find happiness, contentment, fulfillment, and peace eventually.
“Be patient“, I would say, “you will be okay.”
What would you say to your younger self if you had the opportunity?